I am writing at the airport now, probably due to the long waiting time for my next flight. I don't know, I am feeling so lost these days, the stresses in life, the unexpected things happened and the expected things that doesn't happen in my life have been torturing me since long. Totally down and couldn't find a way out.
Anyway, I guess the coming few days or weeks would serve as a turnover? I am not sure. Please at least let me have myself found through wandering.
So, I have been thinking, what do I really want to find for myself. As in, "myself" is an object that once I reach this new destination, I must have found it? Nope, certainly not. I am not a dreamy type (well, I was), but I know I could at least make some steps to understand myself more, to be myself more, to know what I want more, to know what would make me feeling happy or miserable.
This will take time, of course.
I am not that patient, but I must bear with the waiting.
I am not that brave, but I know I must pick up the courage to make the first step.
I am not that independent, but I know I must try to find the happiness on my own instead of keep leaning on my friends, telling them "Hey, I am down, please be with me."
No no no, this is not what I want.
So, these are the things that I wanna do or find out (at least try to do) in these few days, I am writing here not to just express my confused feeling. In fact, I want this to be a reminder for myself, for short and for long.
These are the questions that I am gonna answer myself, soon.
1. What do I feel when I do something? (something as in whatever activity that I do in these coming days or weeks.)
2. How to make myself calm down?
3. What do I really not like, to an extent if I do it I will hate myself?
4. How can I trust people?
5. What activity or anything makes me feel happy or at least not empty?
These are the to-do.
1. To rest well, not forcing myself to do anything that I do not like to do.
2. To live in the current, not past, not future.
3. To reach out to people, to ask them what makes them so certain of their life goal.
4. To be selfish and not compromising sometimes and not afraid to show it, and not hiding it.
5. To take good care of myself.
Good luck.
*If you have any answer to my lost questions, please tell me? Help me a little bit?*
Anyway, I guess the coming few days or weeks would serve as a turnover? I am not sure. Please at least let me have myself found through wandering.
So, I have been thinking, what do I really want to find for myself. As in, "myself" is an object that once I reach this new destination, I must have found it? Nope, certainly not. I am not a dreamy type (well, I was), but I know I could at least make some steps to understand myself more, to be myself more, to know what I want more, to know what would make me feeling happy or miserable.
This will take time, of course.
I am not that patient, but I must bear with the waiting.
I am not that brave, but I know I must pick up the courage to make the first step.
I am not that independent, but I know I must try to find the happiness on my own instead of keep leaning on my friends, telling them "Hey, I am down, please be with me."
No no no, this is not what I want.
So, these are the things that I wanna do or find out (at least try to do) in these few days, I am writing here not to just express my confused feeling. In fact, I want this to be a reminder for myself, for short and for long.
These are the questions that I am gonna answer myself, soon.
1. What do I feel when I do something? (something as in whatever activity that I do in these coming days or weeks.)
2. How to make myself calm down?
3. What do I really not like, to an extent if I do it I will hate myself?
4. How can I trust people?
5. What activity or anything makes me feel happy or at least not empty?
These are the to-do.
1. To rest well, not forcing myself to do anything that I do not like to do.
2. To live in the current, not past, not future.
3. To reach out to people, to ask them what makes them so certain of their life goal.
4. To be selfish and not compromising sometimes and not afraid to show it, and not hiding it.
5. To take good care of myself.
Good luck.
*If you have any answer to my lost questions, please tell me? Help me a little bit?*
